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回来多伦多约一个星期了。 这阵子我都与时差的不适'战斗'着。多伦多与吉隆坡的时差为十二个小时。这里的中午十二点即吉隆坡的午夜十二点。 所以,我在中午会很疲倦,会睡上好几个小时。晚上呢,就会睡不着,或早上四,五点就爬起身来。这两天,好了些。

离开多伦多有四个月左右吧。除了季节的转变,其余的就如四个月前我离开的一样。就好像不曾离开过。

只是,心情有点不同了。上次来此,算是放自己一个长假,也是为了尝试多伦多的生活,见见Ed 的家人朋友。这次,这里变得熟悉了。而且,完成了在墨尔本的学业,也变卖或捐赠了在墨的一切。现在,没了这些牵挂。也许,算是新生活的真正开始吧。

可是,还在等着加拿大的永久居民证,暂是游客身份。再说,我还要再考药剂师的执照,才可以工作。加上,Ed的工作形式多为合约式。我们可能会再搬到别地也难说。听起来有点困难重重。哈! 这证明爱情有多伟大,把我从老远吸引过来 ! (或也是盲目的 😉 )

我暂也不想多想。暂顺其自然吧。想看看在打开生命的另一扇门时,另一边的风景如何。

现在, 我只想要好好享受多伦多夏天的阳光。这也是我要早点回来的原因。上个冬天把我冷得怕了。虽夏天已过了一半, 可我就喜欢现在的阳光, 不是熨人的热, 只是懒懒地温暖。 Ed也已迫不急待地为我编排了一系列的节目。:)

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昨晚,我决定炒上海炒面。这是第一次试煮。 很久以前看过烹饪书。

煮到一半, 那时一切还好。 正当要加上海面时,我看了看那上海面,似乎有些粉。

正犹疑 要不要先用水分开煮一煮, 才与其他材料一齐炒。

照常理, 我通常都会如此做。

可是, 昨晚不知是一时想偷懒,还是在发白日梦,没过水,就把上海面丢进去炒。

结果是当然是不堪设想 !

还以为可以为Ed准备爱心午餐。

难怪他常取笑我-烹饪没他棒,清洗没他勤,家居修理当然不是他那家。

算了,让他都做完,我享受,也正合我心意。

他说,要我这个女友有何用。

我的女性朋友说我“拾到宝”。:D

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Although I may not have much experiences in relationship, I realised some of my friends are happier and less affected by the unpredictable nature of love than others. Just some thoughts to share : –

In this Valentine’s Day,

  • May I wish all those who have their second half, be even more appreciative to them. Wishing you a loving, meaningful, respectful, long lasting and happy relationship.
  • For those who still have not had or found one, don’t worry, don’t compare. Be truly happy yourself, the right one will come to you.
  • Wishing those whom you love still do not know yet, be courageous to share your feelings with them. If they like you too, you deserve it,all the best for the new chapter of life. If it is not the case, it is ok, probably is their losts too. Crying hard maybe one way to vent out your feelings. After that, wishing you step forward and start a new and happy life.
  • For those who have broken up recently, please don’t stay home by yourself and feel pitiful. Please have a good meal with your family and friends. It is understandable to feel sad but don’t neglect your health and your soul. Love yourself, start afresh. Sometimes, times can really take away pain. There are still many people who really love you and care about you.

Last but not least, hope we would not forget to tell your family and friends how much you love them too.

This is for my family and friends, I miss everyone of you and I love you all !!

我没有丰富的感情经验。却发觉有些朋友在感情来去中比一些人快乐。

有些感想,希望分享。

在情人节这天,

  • 深祝有了另一半的,好好珍惜对方。祝你有一个互敬互爱,快乐及持久的感情。 (注:不太喜欢用爱情两字,觉得感情两字比较会持久及实在)
  • 还没有另一半的,别担心,别与人比较。经营好自己的快乐,哪怕没人追。
  • 愿有暗恋人的,痛痛快快说了出来就好了。如果,人家也喜欢的话,那很值得开心。人家不要的话,没法强求,也是他的损失。可以大哭一场来发泄。哭过了就好好过活。
  • 愿失恋的人,别一个人在情人节躲在家里偷偷地哭。与好友家人吃一餐好的。伤心难怪,别伤了身子。好好振作,好好爱自己。时间有时真的可以冲淡一切。你身边还有许多人爱你。

最后,希望大家也别忘了珍惜家人好友!!

这是给我亲爱的家人朋友, 我很想念你们,也很爱你们 !!

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